![]() Some people are looking for Companionship, others want to enhance or Strengthen a Current Relationship and some are seeking a Meaningful Connection with hopes of finding someone special to build a lasting relationship. What We Do For almost a decade the professionals at Coachvista have been providing relationship expertise through the company they founded www.limerencecentre.com. Additionaly they are Personal and Executive Coaches specializing in coaching those seeking new connections to others. They have an in depth understanding of the various nature and types of relationships. Our Coaches are both business and marital partners, and understand that there is a broad continuum of emotional involvement that people seek in connections to other people. Some people are seeking friendship, companionship or someone to share their interests with. Others may feel that life's experiences are richer if shared with someone special. Not all persons are looking for deep intimate relationships. Alternatively, some people are hoping to find someone to be with, to share some time with. Coachvista Coaches' lives have been deeply enriched by their clients and the experience of working with individuals wishing to enhance their relationships. Central to all of this work, regardless of what brought persons to Coachvista is not only the desire for greater connectedness within their relationships, but also, the willingness to seek personal growth. Some people not currently in relationships, may be just beginning to make new connections, or are finding themselves dating for the first time in many years. Our clients tell us that discovering, initiating, and maintaining connecting and or relationships compared to many years ago is quite a different experience. Coachvista views the making of new connections and relationships as a process and they have created a well defined model for this process. Coachvista brings together those who are experts not only in relationships, but also in the field of personal and executive coaching. This hybrid of skills offers a unique skill set to persons looking for meaningful connections to others at various stages in their lives, for a variety of reasons. Some people are looking for companionship, others want to enhance or strengthen a current relationship, and some are seeking a meaningful connection with hopes of finding that special someone to build a lasting relationship. Regardless of what connections we are wishing to make with another person, some knowledge of self, what we want from the connection or relationship, and how to portray our intentions are some of the first crucial steps in the process in the satisfying, but what can be a sometimes anxiety producing journey of finding someone to be with. Like organizations, we too, as individuals have over our lifetime have developed our own "culture", that is our own way of expressing ourselves , our image through the way we dress, the way we speak, our body language, and indeed the way we articulate our thoughts and emotions. Our etiquette too, is part of our culture From our earliest days we begin to develop a script, a ways and means of expressing what we feel on the inside to those we encounter. Understanding the image we project, can help us understand the impact we have on others, in particular, in social situations, such as making meaningful connections with others. Developing this insight can be pivotal. We at Coachvista help you find the most effective, practical, and natural ways for you to find someone to be with. Our method of Coaching4connections TM is a unique way of looking at what your existing skills, abilities, and strengths are in order to make meaningful connections. From that foundation we work with you to incorporate your existing skills and scripts to further enhance them by offering recommendations and potential workable solutions. In order to accomplish this, the team uses a multi pronged approach, the approaches used are as many as the individuals involved, however they can include evaluative instruments and in-depth interviews to help identify and discover ones strengths, areas for development, achievable goals, and objectives both personal and professional. It is our view that individuals already possess many resources that they can draw upon. It is our role to help you mine for these rich resources that you already posses, bring them to the forefront, help you identify them, and find avenues to express them. Coachvista's Coaching4connections Formula: This Formula has been researched and developed by the team at Coachvista and is the initial framework from which each person's tailor made program is derived from. The Formula has 6 essential ingredients to its' success. How and when the components are crafted and applied to the individual's unique set of life circumstances is the genius of the program. This is where the many years of education, training and experience of Coachvista's Coaches are put to use, working collaboratively with the client in order to discrimanately use select aspects of the program at the right time for the right purpose for the right reason in each individual case. It is this discriminating, tailor made program based upon sound foundations and concepts that gives Coachvista its own unique quality and brand.Change In order for the process of Coaching4connections TM to be effective an individual must be ready to change. For the process of making a connection or developing a relationship to take place one must be intrinsically motivated to change. For example the Stages of Change Model may be applied to this process. Plan As with all successful campaigns one must have a plan in order to achieve success. It is this formulation, development and enacting of a plan that will bring about an effective effort and positive results. Such a plan has to not only have a beginning and a formula to follow it must also be flexible and have the alacrity to filter and deal with what happens throughout the process. Organization Once you have committed to the process it is of the utmost importance to be organized in your thoughts and actions so that you are able to formulate and execute the proper follow up when trying to develop your connection and relationship. Self Awareness Coachvista's team of coaches assists clients in the process of making connections by working with them to have a better understanding of themselves. By knowing such things as their personality type, emotional and social intelligence, the individual garners a solid understanding of self. From this foundation they can then look outward at what it is they want in a relationship. One comes to understand the need to develop their interpersonal networking skills so that they are able to engage in a meaningful way with another person. Assets and Strengths Inventory Through professional coaching techniques our team works with the client to ascertain those assets and strengths he or she possesses that will enable them to develop a meaningful relationship. Review and Assess As with many forays in life there are setbacks. It is only realistic that there will be times when things do not work out the way we want. To that end it is realistic to be able to deal with those setbacks and have in place a plan to begin again afresh. This retooling of the dating strategy is as we mentioned above not only realistic it is prudent, and will bode well for someone venturing out on this journey of seeking a meaningful relationship. The Coaching4connections TM formula and process is grounded on a series of tenants that form the foundation upon which the process is build: ![]() Coachvista's Coaching4 Connections TM 10 Process Tenants Making connections is a process There are many unknowns in this process Those involved in the process of making connections need to be prepared to take calculated risks The amount of emotional involvement people are prepared to invest when making connections is on a continuum which may change over time and circumstances. When making connections we need to be able to find a type of comfort zone in moments of psychological discomfort; even though this may feel counter intuitive. Making connections requires the development of a set of specific coping skills specific to dating in the culture of meeting others that likely will include cyber space to some extent. Expect the unexpected and welcoming change empower those making connections. It is realistic to expect that part the process of making connections that there is likely to be occasional disillusionment and disappointment for which Coachvista's team will be there to help you navigate through. The process of making connections will likely have positive impact for those with positive attitude and determination. Making connections is a process |



